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How successful will your retirement be, is a very big question and may take years of careful planning, to achieve.
But retirees do not envisage a life that is not successful, they believed all will be well.
Dona
Rosato in her article captioned “5 Secrets to a Happy Retirement” noted that
Towers Watson happiness
survey found
that retirees who rely mostly on investments had the highest financial anxiety.
Almost a third of retirees who get less than 25% of their income from a pension
or annuity were worried about their financial future; of those who receive 50%
or more of their income from such a predictable source, just under a quarter expressed
the same anxiety”
Continuing
Rosato noted that “More money makes you happier. Once you amass a comfortable
nest egg, though, the effect weakens, says financial planner Wes Moss. For his
recent book, You Can
Retire Sooner Than You Think: The 5 Money Secrets of the Happiest Retirees,
Moss surveyed 1,400 retirees in 46 states. The happiest ones had the highest
net worths, but Moss found that money’s power to boost your mood diminished
after $550,000”
So how
do you make the best out of retirement?
Maintain
a positive attitude towards life and pension inclusive; according to the book
of job what people fear most always comes to them. And according to Robert
Schuler, in his book , “the power of positive thinking “ he noted that one of the basic ingredient of success is
maintaining a positive outlook to life, believe that you will make it and you
will definitely make it, believe that you will not , and you will definitely
not”
Therefore
maintaining a positive attitude in all aspect of life is a pre requisite for
all facets of life and Le Boeuf (1987 :21) noted that “your world is a mirror
and your mind is a magnet what you perceived in this world is largely a reflection of your own attitudes and
beliefs. And life will give you what you attract with your thoughts. Think, act
and talk negatively and your world will likely be negative. Think, act and talk
with enthusiasm and you will attract positive results”.
According
to an article in Yahoo Finance
captioned “7 ways to Retire happy” Mandi Woodruff opined that In a new book, “You Can Retire
Sooner Than You Think,” Atlanta-based investment advisor Wes
Moss,
offers an alternative to the traditional line of thinking. Rather than focus on
a dollar amount to reach for, Moss decided to figure out what retirees needed
to be truly happy in retirement”
“I wanted to go beyond simple income numbers,” Moss says. “I wondered what it
really takes to get somebody to a point where they truly feel they have a
cushion and they are also enjoying life.”
“In 2012, Moss conducted an online survey of more than 1,200 workers who had
either already retired or were fewer than 10 years away from retirement. He
asked them questions about what type of cars they drove, where they shopped,
how much their homes were worth, and, of course, how much they had saved for
retirement. But he also asked about their passion projects, how often they went
on vacation, what types of volunteering they enjoyed, whether or not they were
satisfied with their lives, and how much time they put into their retirement
planning before calling it quits. (Moss did not ask participants about overall
debt levels like student loans and credit cards, but did include questions
about their mortgage debt).”
What he found was that more money doesn’t equate to more happiness. The
happiest retirees didn’t all drive BMWs or take 12 European cruises a year,
either.”
That
brings us back to the important idea about what gives happiness, happiness is
within, it’s a product of contentment, feel contented about what you have, you
will discover that you will be happy, feel otherwise, you will discover that
you will be sad, all the days of your life.
As Dolly Paton noted in her song “Coat of many colors”, that she was as
rich as she could be in her coat of many colors” and she tries to make to
understand” linked to contentment is happy married life.
The
more a retiree stay connected to a happy love life, the better for him. In a
research carried out in the United States has it that people tend to be happy
when they are married than when they are not. And as they say that divorce is
more devastating; coupled with the financial implications and the legal battle
that comes with it. It went on to say that people are more likely to commit
suicide when they are disconnected with their love life or life partner. But I will also add that men are likely also to commit murder when they are disconnected
from their love life and the emotional torture of such act can also drive them
to take their own lives. A horrifying
story is “ Zola ‘s Therese Racquin, where the couple Therese and Laurent who
had murdered Therese’s first husband so that they could come together, become
so consumed by guilt and remorse at the act that their relationship is utterly
poisoned by hatred and they decided to murder each other” Sweeney ( 1979:31)
And according to Eileen Sweeney ( op cited) in
her book titled “Another country” Sweeney noted that “marriage was something
more rounded than mere infatuation, and once a man had built his home, things
were different with him. He must still need his home and would never be the
same without it”
But
does it relate to Africa, where men are more likely to marry more than one
wives. But archival Europe’s observed that men are more likely to commit
suicide than women, as they have unwritten maxim it is only a disappointed man
that hang himself on a tree, a disappointed woman do not hang herself on a tree
but on the neck of the nearest man. But I am seeing it from the view that men
are more pressed with financial problems than women as the social mobility of a
woman is a straight line graph and the social mobility of a man is undulating
graph depicting the full structure of a normal curve.The students of Statistics , Demography are conversant with this.
What then is the most vital ingredient that
ushers in happiness, to me is a robust relationship with God, as experience has
shown that those who are in tune with God , the creator are more likely to be
more happier than others. This is in agreement with Robert Louise Stevenson who
stated “that true happiness consists not in knowledge of good things but in
good life, not in understanding but in living understandingly, neither is it
great learning but goodwill that joins men to God.
And
as Awolowo noted in his book “Path to Freedom”, which he authored while in
Calabar prison, noted that, a big car, a big house, designers clothes are all
vanity, what men needed is God’s happiness, and that is the ultimate happiness.
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