Life in retirement is
another kind of life, in Europe and America, the old man may be sent to an old
peoples home, but in Nigeria and in most African countries , you may be lucky
to enjoy the rewards of African extended relationship by enjoying a
relationship and a stay within your relations house. No wonder a former
president of Nigeria put a note of warning that whoever among his children that
is nursing the ambition of sending him to an old peoples home, will not live to
see old age.
But in Europe and
America, old people look up to such homes as they reach their retirement age,
that is differences in culture and tradition. So how do make out the best out
of old age is entirely a function of the retiree, but the underlying reason is
the ability to see the positive side of life and believe you can.
Henry Ford said “Think
you can, think you can’t, either way you will be right” and according to Robert
Schuller 1988 “I can! Said the retired postman.
He was a rural mailman for twenty years” Schuller (1988:64)
But when retired after
two decades of postal service in Makanda, Illinois Wayman has acquired a small pension
and $1100 savings. His travel company does nearly $7 million in sales a year
with Presley Tours. How does a retired mail man become a prosperous businessman
and according to Schuler, he did it by believing in himself and his abilities
and by making people happy. Schuller (op cited)
But in my own opinion
Wayman succeeded because he was doing what he loves most, and he has a positive
mental attitude. Positive attitude in life is that all that matters and secondly
doing whatever you have been assigned to do with dedication and happiness
irrespective of how much you are paid. According to research it has been
discovered that people who continued whatever they spend many years doing are
more likely to succeed than those who change vocation, job after retirement.
On how many people
fail during retirement, is a function of their ability to kick starting
whatever they are used to even on a smaller scale during old age. Old age comes
with it issues, problems, non acceptance
, health issues and a disconnect with
current happenings in life, there is also the generation gap, and so doing what
you love most or whatever you have been doing most is the key to survival. So a
retired policeman, or army officer can comfortable operate a security outfit and
consultancy.
And how Wayman did
arrived at that, “one day someone said to him” I would love to see the ocean.
That simple wish enthusiastically
expressed to Wayman led to a tour of 546 people to Miami Beach , Wayman
made $120 and had such a good time that
he decided to go into business” Schuller op cited.
That is passion,
passion is all that you need to excel, in all areas of life, everything dies
without passion. With passion you can excel in all your life aspiration, its
passion that makes the difference in vocation.
But from my interaction
with retirees within my six years in pension industry, I want to believe that
what drove Wayman was not the money but the actual sharing of one’s thought and
deepest hopes fulfilled. And as Chinua Achebe will say the sharing of one’s thought and deepest hope fulfilled
can drive human beings to success. And the keen desire to return and do what he
was doing before was the actual driving force for Wayman Presley.
It has been proved
that people always wish for what they don’t have, I believe that Wayman was
looking forward to his retirement during his working career but it did not take
time for him to realize that he could have love going back to work may be after
staying for the initial period of six months. That is the irony of life. The
irony of life is that people tend to be what they are not, that is why you see
the whites sun tanning and the blacks bleaching.
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